lqbtq+ community in brown culture

DEAR DIDI,

I wish my parents were more supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. I, along with many of the people I associate with, are a part of the LGBTQ+ community. My parents repeatedly lectured me that God wasn't accepting about it, and that there were 2 genders for a reason. As gender fluid, I feel deeply hurt by this statement. In Hinduism, there are many examples of a third gender as well as gender fluidity. I feel that my parents need to be more accepting and open towards this community. Many people are hiding their sexuality and gender due to oppressive parents and religion. Over everything, they are human, and that's the most important thing at the end of the day. The other day, my mom had said to me "If there was a gay woman about to be hit by a car, I would definitely save them," but then she continued to say if I was included in that community, I would be married off to someone. I'm not really sure what to do and honestly, I'm begging for the day I get to move out.

a word from didi

Hey, I’m so glad that you decided to share your story with us. It is so important that you realize that so many people will stand by and support you. Stay strong 🏳️‍🌈 As for any tips, we would love it if someone who has gone through a similar situation and grown from it could drop a comment or two on how to approach a disagreement with such a delicate parental relationship. Thank you again for sharing! I’m beyond glad you brought light to this topic.

Love always,

Didi

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